What is an orgasm and what it is

Orgasm - is like diamonds in the sky: who has not seen, he does not understand. Tangible signs of orgasm are: men - ejaculation, the release of sperm, a woman (the evidence is less clear cut) - a series of convulsions, "stranglehold" and, of course, her words. Intensity of orgasm can be different depending on certain factors, such as the degree of sexual arousal and foreplay of the way that orgasm is achieved.



Frequently happens that one partner has never reached orgasm during intercourse.
Sometimes masturbation can provide a more intense orgasm than intercourse with a partner. So often the inclusion of sexual intercourse mutual masturbation reinforces the sense of partners.



We must remember that to reach orgasm at the same time quite difficult, because the man is much more stimulated during intercourse. Therefore, if a man wants to simultaneously enjoy the bliss with a partner, he must give more attention to foreplay.


Male orgasm

At the time of excitation of the blood, pritekaya to the penis, forcing him to grow - an erection. The head of the penis may darken from the blood gushed. Respiratory rate and heart rate increases sharply, scrotum shrinking, pressing the testes to the body. Frictions increase, and the man eyakuliruet - ejects semen. Following this, the penis gradually falls off, and the man some time not able to re-experience of sexual intercourse and orgasm. Calm after orgasm is as important for sexual gratification, like its predecessor sexual intercourse erection. So relax and lie beside partner - you'll like.



Since two thirds of ejaculation in men occurs earlier than the coming orgasm in women, men should equalize the difference or the length of pre-game, or making of an "effort", concluding caresses.

Through a preliminary period of caresses, the man, knowing the physiological and psychological characteristics of its women, can bring her excitement to a level where the orgasm of both partners will occur simultaneously or even their partner a little bit earlier.

Women, know that not all men like it when during ejaculation they look in his eyes ...


Female orgasm

Initiation of a woman makes the blood rush to the vagina, vulva (external genitals) also swells. Exude, moisturizing and lubricating the inner surface of the vagina, which will soon be tested friction. Clitoris and labia swell and darken. With the growing excitement the clitoris retracts, the body becomes extremely sensitive, respiration rate and heart rate increases.



There are several types of female orgasm:



Vaginal orgasm.

His ability to simply check it. Enter the lower part of the vagina with two fingers and tighten muscles. Weak or almost complete lack of compression indicates the weakness of the "necessary" for vaginal orgasm muscle. Will help training - every day repeatedly compress the muscles of the lower part of the vagina and anus draw. This can be done at any time between the case and always during sexual intercourse.



Clitoral orgasm.

Almost all women are capable of feeling it, too, but not all are successful. If the clitoris is quite high, it remains outside the field of friction penis. In order to achieve clitoral orgasm can recommend leg kicked partner immediately after entering the penis into the vagina.



The mother orgasm.

Arises as a result of stimulation of the cervix and is the lot of 25% of women. If the penis is short and lacks the uterus, one of the three proposed item will necessarily. First: a woman lies on her back and sharply tightens legs to his stomach, significantly shortening the vagina. Second: a man lying on his back, while a woman sits astride. Third: a woman lies on her stomach or side



When a woman reaches orgasm, her vagina is compressed a few times a spasm, the body can pass through the "wave of pleasure", as further stimulation of the clitoris and the friction can lead to the next orgasm. Women unlike men are able not only to several orgasms, but also a longer duration of each of them. And for a woman to orgasm with a pronounced sex drive (libido) to an average of 2-5 minutes. And, of course, man must also be "normal", that is generous.