"And suddenly fail?"-Having sex fears

How would they like to seem bold and courageous, in fact, the average man - being quite fearful. As shown by the researches of German scholars, men are afraid of everything: to be loved not their fathers (for some reason that fear they have is in the first place), rejection by a woman, accidents, loss of control over subordinates and so on.



However, let them they somehow cope with such fears, we and their own enough. But there is one aspect of life, where the timid and vulnerable man's soul can give a woman a lot of trouble. Agree, if your favorite in the most crucial moment begins to get nervous, you can forget about pleasure. So, what are they afraid of the bed and what are the causes of fear of sex?



"And suddenly fail?



Somewhere in the subconscious of every man is sitting this fear. Especially rapidly it occurs, if such a situation with your hero has already happened. However, in men there is a myth that each of them meted out a certain number of sperm, and hence sexual acts for life. Therefore, even those who had never happened misfires, are afraid that one day is not far from their limit will be exhausted.



Well, the view, of course, extremely silly from a scientific point of view ... Therefore, if your potential lover, under any pretext postpones the moment of intimacy, most likely, he feels fear of sex. And then you must be very careful. Do not press him, but always let him know that he is very interested in you. If you still managed to drag a coward to bed, take the initiative in their hands. When the process goes, he forgets about his fears.



Monthly



Many men, upon learning that the ladies critical days, immediately give the reverse. Some sex in this period seems unattractive, but there are those who believe that the menstrual blood of women live bacteria that can carry infection in his most important organ. Again, nonsense, you know something that the danger of infection exists only for you, for a woman to pick up an infection risk during menses increases significantly. But as long as men prefer to believe in such nonsense rather than scientific data, be sure to warn your partner about your condition and if he does not take the initiative and move the joy of love for another day.



Devstvennos



Learning that you have - a virgin, more than half of men simply run away with wild cries, because I am terribly frightened. They are afraid they are primarily additional responsibilities: what if immediately after intercourse, you grabbed him in a stranglehold and dragged him to the registry office. Another reason for the fear of virginity - the fear of men inflict pain girl. Therefore, in order not to baffle the cavalier Similar headlines even during the close, warn him of his virginity in advance. To prevent an escape attempt, immediately specify that he would not impinge on his independence as too appreciate his own.



Comparisons



If you tell your man about his stunning novel, Vasya, who bring you to orgasm by seven times in one session, your current lover may decide that on the background Wasi it will look vulgar parody of the pathetic misunderstanding. And so he will feel fear of having sex with you. To avoid this, avoid these revelations. However, talking about all sorts of abominations Vasya also did not recommend: first, a male solidarity your cavalier immediately embark on his behalf, and secondly, he was afraid that if you parted again, of him will say the same self



Their appearance



Yes, no matter how they assured us that this man's own appearance is irrelevant, in fact, an inferiority complex about it they have no less than ours. Therefore, if your favorite prefer to undress in the dark, and you accidentally light is lit, he immediately draws in the stomach and stretches all the muscles, most likely, he just shy of her appearance. More often talk about how gorgeous his figure and that men with a little tummy excite you much stronger than bodybuilders, and his fears disappear with time



Quick orgaz



Aware of such a feature, your fan probably will issue his own endless questions, is it true that you were well managed it and so on. It only seems that women are men afraid of being abandoned, in fact, their fear is even stronger, especially if the cause of separation will be dissatisfied partner in bed. Well, if you wish, however, a continuing relationship, to accustom her lover to a long prelude, let them take the trouble over your erogenous zones, will feel its power over your body, as a reward you're already happy, and entirely to him myself for the final chord



Small fines



This is very shy strong half of mankind, but most pleasure from this partner does not. From one seventy familiar, having a lover twenty years younger than her, I heard a remarkable phrase: "The little - big - this is not the main thing would be fun.

So you have to convince your malomerochka what fun it instrumentika did not exist. But seriously, the selection of specific postures for deep penetration actually will reduce the problem to zero and save a man from the fear of sex.



Activity or coldness partner



In the first case, a man scares mandative tone mistress and guidance, how, what and how fast to do. Boss instead of a woman in bed - it is humiliating, therefore, to achieve a better simply to praise him for every good stroking and ask to stay on this point, and it is to ask, let them feel your relationship and yourself in the role of master. In the second case, the beloved scares women brevnoobraznost. He spins like a fly on the switch, but it was ... <



In general, who likes to perform the role necrophiliac, and with the woman he loved? Shake well, play a little, draw a passion, do not accidentally say that a smile, even forcibly, improves mood. What if you were mesmerized by the role, log in image of passionate kurtizan